Category: Our Stories

Peter with his Match, John, at the ABLE2 Holiday Dinner and Dance in 2012

I’ve been volunteering with ABLE2 since 2007, and the experience has had a real impact on my life. What initially drew me to ABLE2 was its mission—to connect vulnerable and isolated individuals in our community with volunteers who can be their friends and allies. That simple but powerful idea continues to inspire me.

My first match was with John, who at the time had no close family and was living in a group home. We became close friends. John lived with disabilities, and while I could support him at times, the real value was simply in spending time together—sharing stories, laughs, and everyday experiences. Our friendship lasted until his passing in 2019, and I still think of him often.

Since then, I’ve been matched with Dennis, and more recently with Larry in 2022. Each friendship is unique, and each one has added something special to my life. These aren’t just volunteer roles—they are real, enduring relationships rooted in trust and mutual respect.

In addition to volunteering, I also served on the board of ABLE2 for six years. That experience gave me a close-up view of the organization’s inner workings. I saw first-hand the dedication of the staff and the strength of the leadership team. Their commitment to the people they serve is evident, and their approach is thoughtful and effective.

As a long-time donor, I give with confidence because I’ve seen the impact up close. The funds are used wisely and make a tangible difference in the lives of people who need connection and support.

Being part of ABLE2—as a volunteer, a donor, and a board member—has been a significant part of my life. It’s shown me how powerful a simple human connection can be, and how small acts of friendship can change lives.

When Maryse signed up to become a volunteer Ally more than a decade ago, she never imagined that what began as an act of giving back, would evolve into something more. After retiring due to illness, Maryse was eager to reconnect with her community. Volunteering had always been part of her life, but the opportunity she found through ABLE2’s Matching Program turned out to be something more than volunteering—it became a gateway to family.

Grace had just moved to Ottawa from Toronto. With few social connections, she found herself struggling with loneliness in an unfamiliar city. A social worker referred her to ABLE2’s Matching Program in the hopes that she might find friendship and a stronger sense of belonging. When she met Maryse, that hope became a reality. “Maryse helped me get to my appointments, run errands, and just be out in the community,” Grace says. “She made everything better. She made me feel like I wasn’t alone.”

In the beginning, the two met weekly to pick up groceries, visit garden centres, and grab meals at Swiss Chalet. Grace, an avid gardener, shared her love of plants while finding joy in their regular outings. “We used to see each other more back then,” Maryse says. “But now, because of mobility issues, we still make time for a video call almost every day.”

Over the years, Maryse’s husband Ron naturally became part of Grace’s circle of support. They’ve stepped in during emergencies, attended family milestones together, and have been a helping hand. Grace’s son Ernest, who also participates in ABLE2 programs, is now part of what Maryse lovingly calls “our little Ottawa family.” She adds, “We don’t have close relatives here, so Grace and Ernest became ours.” 

And that love goes both ways. They celebrate birthdays and holidays, share laughs, and even attend occasional parties. “They’ve been there through everything,” Grace says. “Maryse was there when I was in the hospital, or just when I needed someone to talk to. Maryse makes my day.”

Maryse, Grace, and Ernest at ABLE2’s Holiday Dinner & Dance 

When asked how volunteering has impacted her life, Maryse says, “It’s more than volunteering. It’s enriching. It’s fun. It’s nourishing. You gain so much more than you give.” Her words echo the core truth of ABLE2’s Matching Program: while volunteers sign up to give their time and support, they often walk away with something even greater—a deeper sense of connection, purpose, and joy.

Twelve years after their first meeting, Maryse and Grace are no longer just a Match—they’re family. They’ve woven their lives together through the small, beautiful rituals of friendship: from holiday dinners to inside jokes (including the infamous day a seagull stole a hot dog right off of Ernest’s hand!). These moments, though seemingly ordinary, are what give life meaning—and they are exactly what the Matching Program was designed to make possible.

ABLE2’s Matching Program has been building friendships like this for over 50 years—helping people with disabilities and volunteers find the meaningful social connections that everyone deserves. But the need is greater than ever. Today, over 140 people are still waiting to be matched.

When you support ABLE2—whether by donating, volunteering, or simply sharing our story—you help create more connections like Grace and Maryse’s. You help transform loneliness into laughter, and isolation into inclusion. You help build a community where everyone belongs.

Be part of the story. Support ABLE2 today.

When Daniel signed up to volunteer with ABLE2’s Matching Program, he wasn’t sure what he was getting himself into. He thought it was a meaningful way to spend free time, but admits it was initially to impress a girl he was seeing. While the relationship didn’t flourish, he found something else that would later change his life. “I went into it kind of blind,” Daniel admits. “But then I spoke with the social worker, and she sold me on the idea of being someone’s friend for life.”  Daniel felt like it was a big commitment, but once he met Mark, “It just clicked.” 

Mark, who has had previous volunteer Allies, felt the connection instantly. “It was a match made in heaven,” he says with a smile. “As soon as I saw him, I just knew; this one’s special.” Their connection was immediate and genuine, the kind of chemistry that doesn’t need much explanation. Since being matched in 2023, the two have built a bond that continues to enrich both their lives—not just in shared laughs, but in the kind of steady presence that only real friendship offers.

Mark and Daniel at Evening in the Maritimes – May 1, 2024

Their weekly routine is getting coffee at Tim Horton’s, but occasionally, they also enjoy going for walks along the canal, swimming, and bowling— where Mark proudly dominates! They’ve made a habit of turning ordinary outings into memorable moments. One outing that stuck with Daniel was their visit to the Canadian War Museum, where Mark surprised him with an impromptu history lesson. And while not every outing is a shared passion—like the time Daniel brought Mark to a baseball game (“Mark isn’t a baseball guy,” Daniel jokes)—they both agree that differences don’t diminish the experience. “We found a million other things that we both love, and we have fun and enjoy each other’s company nevertheless,” says Daniel. 

Mark and Daniel, with another Match Russ and Vaughn, and Mark’s best friend Josh

Their circle has even grown to include others more recently. They’ve gone on outings with other matches, and even with Mark’s best friend, Josh, tagging along too. “I’m very proud of that,” Mark shares. “Because most people, when they say they’re a match, it’s just the two of them. But Daniel sees how much Josh means to me, so he comes along with us once in a while. And I love that it makes Josh feel like he’s got somebody too.” This is one of the quiet but powerful ripple effects of a match— how one match can grow into a broader social circle of belonging and trust. 

Another profound effect of their match is how Mark has influenced Daniel’s perspective. Mark, who has written a book on his life experiences, started a business and advocated for people with disabilities in the community— leads by example in every part of his life. Last Christmas, he brought Daniel to volunteer at the Parkdale Food Centre, where they spent the holiday spreading cheer to others in need. That moment left a lasting impression on Daniel. “I see Mark wanting to give his time to others who need it more than he does,” he reflects. “And that makes me very happy. I love it when people do that. There should be more people like Mark.”

When asked how their friendship has impacted their lives, Mark shares, “I don’t feel lonely,” Mark says. “I feel like I have another brother. He’s always there when I need him.” Daniel feels just as grateful. “We have a lot in common, and he’s incredibly easygoing. It’s been fun ever since, and most days I walk away feeling pretty good.”

Daniel, a tech professional by trade, has found himself transformed by the experience. “It’s given me a whole new perspective. You don’t realize how people with disabilities are treated until you’re side by side with someone navigating it every day,” he says. “Mark is so motivated, so full of energy—it’s contagious. It makes you want to be better, do more.” And Mark, always quick to reflect gratitude, adds: “He’s made me a better man. And I wish everyone had a match like Daniel.”

These seemingly simple moments—grabbing coffee, laughing over shared (or not-so-shared) interests, and making new friends—add up to something much bigger: a friendship built on trust and support, that makes the experience meaningful for both. “Mark is an incredibly inspiring guy,” Daniel says. “And I’m finding myself looking forward to introducing him to my girlfriend, my family. I thought this would be an isolated part of my life, but now after spending time with him, I want Mark to meet people I care about and for them to see what a wonderful person Mark is.”

Mark and Daniel’s friendship is just one of the thousands fostered through ABLE2’s Matching Program— a program that has been changing lives for 50 years. These intentional friendships reduce loneliness and isolation, build confidence and self-esteem, and improve mental health and overall well-being. These matches don’t just change two lives— the impact ripples outward into families, communities, and society at large. 

Today, there are still over 140 people with disabilities waiting to be matched with an Ally through ABLE2. People like Mark, who just need someone to walk alongside them. People like Daniel, who discover as much as they give.

Your support makes these life-changing friendships possible. Whether by donating, volunteering, or supporting our fundraising events, you are helping build a community where everyone can thrive and live a life filled with meaning and joy. 

Support ABLE2 and help create the next story like this one. 

Sheena had spent years grappling with mental health issues, constantly feeling the crippling isolation and loneliness. “I used to be in the hospital every few months. It’s not always obvious, but people with mental illness do need support,” she reflects. In 2010, Sheena was referred to ABLE2’s Matching Program to expand her social connections in the community. “I’m lucky that ABLE2 acknowledged my mental illness as a disability and was there for me from the beginning. Since being matched with Colleen, I’ve only been hospitalized twice in 15 years.” Having a friend in Colleen— someone who listens, laughs, and shows up— has been life-changing for Sheena. 

“Colleen and I, we’re tight. She’s like a big sister. It’s nice to have this support,” Sheena shares. “And she doesn’t judge me, that’s the big one. I have multiple diagnoses, and she never says, ‘Why did you do this to yourself, Sheena?’ She doesn’t judge at all.” Colleen has been a steady anchor in moments of uncertainty and a lifeline when she needed it most. 

Colleen, a Special Education teacher at the time, had been looking for meaningful opportunities to give back to the community— especially as retirement approached. She learned about ABLE2’s Matching Program through a colleague who had been a long-time volunteer, and seeing how this one-on-one intentional match had a direct impact on the person with a disability, Colleen knew she wanted to be involved. Colleen and Sheena were eventually matched, and 15 years later their friendship is going stronger and deeper than ever. 

At first, Colleen saw the match as a one-way relationship where she would be supporting Sheena. What she didn’t anticipate was how deeply the relationship would enrich her own life. “It just made me realize that after so many years, I haven’t really thought about Sheena’s diagnosis anymore. She’s my friend, she’s my Sheena,” Colleen says with a smile.

“And I can easily say that I’ve gotten just as much out of it as Sheena has. I’ve gone through some big life changes. I lost my mom last year, and Sheena was very supportive through those times. Sheena is one of the stronger persons I know, and she inspires me every day.” 

Over the years, they’ve shared countless moments together. They’ve gone hiking in Gatineau, attended ABLE2’s events such as the Annual Picnic and the Holiday Dinner and Dance, and even found a shared love for Aquafit classes. Their bond has even extended into a larger circle of friendship, often joining other matches for social outings. Sheena shares, “I’ve been able to go out in the community and do social things with other friends.”

“I didn’t have that before; I didn’t have anybody. Now it’s better. I’m not struggling anymore. I just wanted to be happy, and now, I am.”

Sheena and Colleen with another match, Maggie and Madeleine at ABLE2’s Holiday Dinner and Dance

When asked why people should consider volunteering with ABLE2, Colleen shares, “It’s an experience that has a lasting impact on your life. Don’t be intimidated about the level of commitment, because you and your match will end up working it out for yourselves. It’s not an onerous thing to incorporate in your life. Before long, it becomes something you want to do.” 

Sheena echoes that sentiment. “The Matching Program has been life-changing and fantastic. I hope it continues so that other people get opportunities like this.”

Why Support Matters

Over 140 people with disabilities are waiting an average 1.5 to 2 years to be matched with a volunteer Ally through ABLE2’s Matching Program. Like Sheena, these individuals are looking for meaningful friendships—connections that provide support, companionship, and someone to share life’s journey with.

By supporting ABLE2—whether through volunteering, donating, or advocating for us in the community—you are helping to create friendships that serve as a lifeline that improves mental health, reduces loneliness and social isolation, and empowers individuals with disabilities to thrive. Be the reason someone feels seen, valued, and supported. 

Learn more about how you can get involved with ABLE2 here.

Patricia with her Matching Program Friend of 15 years, Sophia

For Patricia, her involvement with ABLE2 has been more than just a job— it’s a mission to advocate for inclusion and remove everyday barriers that many people with disabilities face. As a Planning Facilitator with ABLE2’s Adult Protective Services Worker (APSW) Investment program, she spends her days supporting individuals in navigating the complex housing system, finding resources to develop essential life skills, and working towards a plan for their independence. Most importantly, Patricia helps them believe in their own ability to shape their futures. 

The APSW Investment Program, in partnership with Developmental Services Ontario – Eastern Region (DSO-ER) and the Ontario Ministry of Children, Community and Social Services (MCCSS) offers support for adults with developmental disabilities who would like to move to a home of their own. The process of finding and moving into a home is an overwhelming process and can be difficult to know where or how to start. APSW Planning Facilitators like Patricia work with individuals to identify their goals, develop a plan and work through any barriers they may encounter. For aging caregivers, planning for their loved ones’ futures through the APSW Investment Program ensures adults with disabilities aren’t left without support when their families can no longer provide it.

Her role is both urgent and deeply personal. Patricia has witnessed firsthand how affordable housing shortages and funding limitations leave many people with disabilities stuck in unsafe or unsuitable conditions, often holding onto hope while on the waitlist for almost a decade. However discouraging the systemic barriers may be, Patricia continues to advocate for her clients’ needs, while working on the necessary skills and confidence to take that step when they are ready. She supports them in developing financial literacy skills such as budgeting and keeping track of expenses, cooking, taking public transport, and even obtaining employment. 

“The most rewarding part of my work is seeing that confidence grow,” Patricia shares. “When someone finally moves into their own apartment and shows it off with pride, that’s when I know we’ve made a real impact.”

Patricia knows the need far outweighs the available resources. Still, she remains committed to helping each person she works with take meaningful steps toward independence, no matter how long the process takes.

A Committed Advocate for People with Disabilities

Patricia’s involvement with ABLE2 began long before she joined the APSW team. She was a stay-at-home mom looking for ways to stay involved in the social services field. In 2002, she first learned about the organization through a colleague in the social work field and was drawn to the idea of developing a one-on-one connection with a person with a disability. She then signed up to become a volunteer Ally with the Matching Program, where she met her Friend, Sophia. A friendship turned family— now 17 years strong— became a defining part of Patricia’s journey. 

“Having Sophia in my life has given me more meaning and helped me feel more of a part of our community, and just feel more connected to everyone around us,” says Patricia, and adds that stepping out of our own little worlds and expanding who we’re sharing our lives with is a good thing.

When Patricia decided to return to the workforce, she knew she wanted to work with ABLE2.  “I had a feeling it would be a good place to join, and I was right. It’s been a great place to work and an excellent opportunity to help more people in the community and support them to change their lives as well,” she shares.

Apart from her work with the APSW team, Patricia has also been instrumental in ABLE2’s events as part of the planning committees. 

Why Your Support Matters

Patricia’s work—and the work of the APSW program—is possible because of the generosity of our donors, volunteers, and community supporters. Housing shortages, funding gaps, and a lack of accessible resources mean that far too many people with disabilities remain stuck in situations that limit their potential.

With your continued support, ABLE2 can empower more individuals to take control of their futures, gain independence, and build lives of meaning and joy—just as Patricia has helped so many do.

Join us in supporting programs like APSW and ensuring that every person with a disability can build lives of meaning and joy.

By Michael Song, ABLE2 Program Manager

Being a social worker was never in the cards. Originally, I set my sights on a career in graphic design, but I found myself at a crossroads when this did not work out in the way that I had hoped. Unsure of what was next, I decided to interview people from different fields and get a better understanding of their jobs. One conversation that stood out for me was with a Social Worker. On the surface, Social Work and Graphic Design appear to be drastically different. However, they share a lot of similar characteristics— helping people identify a problem and achieve their goals. Both jobs suggest solutions but, in the end, respect the direction the client wants. In the same way, both roles do well in seeing underlying problems that need to be addressed, beyond the presented problem.

Ultimately, I wanted to help people in a way that is meaningful to them. And this can be done in different ways— you can work in a bookstore and help people, and it still is important. However, being in the social work field resonated more for me. Since then, I have worked at the Canadian Mental Health Association (CMHA), Goodwill, and the Government of Nunavut. I’m glad that I took this direction in my career as I’ve had the fortune of working with a diverse range of people throughout my career.

I joined ABLE2 in 2015 as a Social Worker with the Matching Program. I found that it was a unique experience wherein the program was focused on mobilizing the community to help address a need, rather than being the person who provides all the support. The Matching Program also addressed something that is rarely addressed by other programs— the social connection that all people need. It has been very rewarding, working toward fulfilling a want that is vital to the human condition, but strangely overlooked by society. 

In 2022, I became Program Manager of all of ABLE2’s programs and services. I oversee the Matching Program, Adult-Protective Services Worker (APSW) Investment, Funding Brokerage, and the Fetal Alcohol Resource Program (FARP). My typical day is spent doing the administrative but needed activities that keep the organization functioning— checking emails and responding to questions and requests. However, what is different is that I get to work on challenging issues to ensure that programs operate smoothly. Together with the team, I help identify and address matters that may arise or proactively anticipate problems. I also spend time doing research on various topics related to our program, to help ensure that our work continues to be relevant and identify opportunities where we may be able to grow. The biggest challenge has been finding a good balance between continuing to do what we do best and knowing when to push and take risks. We can’t jump at every opportunity that appears, but we need to know when a risk may be worth the effort.

Some of my time is also spent on working on being a better Manager. I am new to this and have a lot more to learn. I’ve made plenty of mistakes and I will probably make more, but like I tell my team, it’s not so much about making mistakes, but how you can learn from them and be better. I’ve also committed myself to cultivating a healthy work environment for my team. It’s a work in progress, but I think it’s important that people work in an environment where they can do their best, be treated as adults, while continuing to push for high standards for them to achieve. I believe that if I treat my team like friends, I fail them. If I treat my team as assets to use, I fail them.  I strive to keep the balance between ensuring the team is taken care of and feeling secure but still pushing them to do their best and to grow beyond their comfort zones. We provide a service, but that service is delivered by people who care and want to make a difference— we can’t ignore the passion our staff have for what we do, but at the same time we always need to strive for excellence, not just to deliver quality services, but also for the team to excel and take pride in what they do. 

Lastly, Social Work is, at its core, about helping the people we support to navigate the barriers and create opportunities for them to thrive. Together with the team, we build connections, strengthen communities, and empower individuals to create the life that is meaningful to them. At ABLE2, we see firsthand how the right supports can make a difference—whether it’s providing the tools they need to live independently, helping reduce their isolation and loneliness, or equipping families with the resources to advocate for their loved ones. 

This work matters, and it doesn’t happen without the support of people who believe in inclusion, dignity, and the power of human connection. If you believe in the importance of building a community where everyone has the chance to thrive, I encourage you to support ABLE2—whether by donating, volunteering, or simply learning more about the impact we can make together. 

When Elijah started his journey with ABLE2, he was skeptical that he would find the support he needed. After spending over seven years on the Social Housing Registry, waiting for affordable and accessible housing, he felt stuck. He was renting a room in a townhouse and his living conditions were far from ideal—unsafe and not close to his hoped-for quality of life. Living on a fixed income through the Ontario Disability Support Program (ODSP) only added to the challenges.

Elijah was then referred to ABLE2’s Adult Protective Services Investment (APSW) program. Working in partnership with Developmental Service Ontario – Eastern Region (DSO-ER) and the Ontario Ministry of Children, Community and Social Services (MCCSS), the program supports adults with developmental disabilities who would like to move into a home of their own. This program is increasingly vital as many caregivers and parents of individuals with disabilities are ageing, making it crucial to help adults with disabilities secure stable housing and gain independence. 

Elijah began working with ABLE2’s Adult Protective Services Worker (APSW), who supported him in exploring his housing options, assisting with form submissions, and navigating the Canadian Ontario Housing Benefit (COHB) program. After a year, he finally moved into an apartment that met his needs, giving him longed-for security and stability.

“I am most thankful for the help I get from ABLE2,” Elijah shares. “I am in good shape now. I have a safe and affordable housing, and I continue to get the support I need.” 

Elijah is thriving. He currently works as a Personal Support Worker as well as pursuing Indigenous Studies at Algonquin College. He enjoys going out and socializing in the community and even volunteering his time at ABLE2’s events. In 2024, he proudly shared his story in ABLE2’s Anniversary Video, a testament to the transformative impact of the APSW program.

The APSW program is not just about housing—it is about empowering individuals to make their own choices, so they live a life that is meaningful to them. When individuals are provided with the necessary tools and resources, they become advocates for themselves and their communities. “I’ve seen Elijah grow more confident and independent, which is what we strive for in APSW. We work to reduce the barriers, the stress, and anxieties of unstable living conditions, so people with disabilities can thrive.” says Taylor, Elijah’s APSW. 

Your Support Makes Stories Like Elijah’s Possible
This vital work is made possible through the generosity and compassion of ABLE2’s donors, volunteers and supporters. With your help, ABLE2 can continue providing programs like APSW, ensuring more individuals like Elijah can thrive. Let us continue to build a community where everyone has a safe place to call home.

Learn how you can be involved with ABLE2 today.

Photo from PWHL

Stephanie Markowski, the standout defense player for the Ottawa Charge and a new face in Ottawa, has made a significant move off the ice. In the fall of 2024, Stephanie reached out to ABLE2, expressing her desire to volunteer and explore more ways to get involved with the organization. ABLE2 is thrilled to welcome Stephanie to the ABLE2 team as an ambassador and a partner in empowering people with disabilities in our community to build lives of meaning and joy. 

Stephanie’s impressive career includes representing Canada at the 2019 IIHF World Women’s U18 Championship in Japan, where her team clinched the gold medal. After four stellar seasons playing at Clarkson University, Stephanie completed her NCAA career at Ohio State, leading her team to a National Championship. In June 2024, she was drafted by the Professional Women’s Hockey League (PWHL).

After her big move to Ottawa, Stephanie had a vision in mind; to have a meaningful connection with her new community by exploring opportunities to be involved and give back. “I’ve been looking for ways to get involved in Ottawa, and ABLE2’s volunteer opportunity of having a one-on-one connection with a person with a disability really stood out to me,” she shares. Her mother, a teacher to underserved children in her hometown in Edmonton, Alberta, has instilled in her a deep sense of understanding and empathy for the most vulnerable. Stephanie is eager to lend her voice and platform as ABLE2’s ambassador. 

This partnership will see Stephanie leveraging her platform as a professional athlete to expand ABLE2’s reach and help elevate its capacity to serve more individuals. Through social media, event participation, and public advocacy, her involvement will shine a light on ABLE2’s impactful programs and encourage others to join her in supporting the cause.

One of the highlights of this collaboration will be the Stephanie’s contribution to ABLE2’s biggest fundraising event, Evening in the Maritimes (EiTM). Known for being Ottawa’s premier East Coast kitchen party, the event brings together prominent social figures, business and community leaders in Ottawa for a night of fun and fundraising. Stephanie has generously donated an auction prize of two (2) tickets to any Ottawa Charge game for the 2025-2026 season, an exclusive meet and greet experience with the Ottawa Charge athletes, and a signed jersey and hockey stick. She is excited about contributing to the event’s success, promoting the event on her social media and as well as attending the event herself. 

Stephanie is also currently in the process of onboarding as a volunteer Ally with ABLE2’s Matching Program. The program, which pairs volunteers with individuals with disabilities, allows both Friends and Allies to develop meaningful and intentional friendships. These connections help reduce loneliness and social isolation while expanding community ties. Recognizing the importance of inclusion, Stephanie also has generously offered occasional game tickets for ABLE2’s matches and program users. “Our team is always looking for ways to give back, and I think this is a great opportunity to do something meaningful,” she noted.

ABLE2 Executive Director Heather Lacey lauded Stephanie’s enthusiasm to get involved. “We’re thrilled to welcome Stephanie as part of the ABLE2 community. She is not only a talented athlete but also someone with a genuine heart for making a difference. Her influence will help us reach more people in the community and inspire others to join our mission of fostering inclusion and support for people with disabilities.” 

As ABLE2 gears up for another edition of EiTM, the excitement is also palpable for Stephanie. Her partnership with ABLE2 is a promising step in our vital work of building an inclusive community where every person is seen as able, important and valued. We’re eager for Stephanie to skate forward into her new role as a champion for inclusivity in the community.

When Remo retired in 2017, he was looking for a way to give back to the community and do something meaningful with his time. A chance encounter with an article about ABLE2’s Matching Program piqued his interest. Little did he know, saying “yes” to becoming an Ally would lead to a seven-year (and counting) friendship that has not only enriched his own life but also transformed the life of his Match, Chris. 

Chris, living with diabetes and mobility challenges, joined the Matching Program at the suggestion of his sister. At the time, he was living independently but found himself increasingly isolated. “I wanted someone to do things with,” Chris recalls. Through the program, he was paired with Remo, and their connection quickly evolved into a friendship that neither could have predicted.

The two meet weekly, often over coffee or lunch, and enjoy everything from attending Ottawa Senators practices to reminiscing about Chris’s childhood. Remo shares, “It’s the simple things—visiting places that are meaningful to Chris, helping him run errands, or just catching up—that make our time together special.” Once, the pair even ventured to the Rideau Canal to try skating, a humorous and memorable experience they both laugh about to this day. “Not everything turns out perfect, but it’s always worth the effort,” says Remo.

For Chris, the friendship is life changing. Before meeting Remo, he spent much of his time alone, watching TV. Now, he has a companion who helps him get out, experience new things, and share life’s ups and downs. “Having Remo in my life means I’m not stuck at home anymore. It’s made a huge difference,” he says.

But the impact is mutual. “This friendship has taught me patience, understanding, and the value of seeing the world through someone else’s perspective,” Remo reflects. While volunteering might seem like a big commitment, Remo insists it’s not as daunting as people think. “Meeting once a week for a few hours is such a small part of my time, but the rewards—for both of us—are immense.”

For Chris, Remo is more than a volunteer—he’s a trusted friend. A few years ago, when Chris was hospitalized while recovering from a health issue, Remo stood by his side, offering support and companionship during his recovery. Their Match has grown beyond just shared outings; it has become a deeper, more meaningful bond that carries them through life’s challenges together. 

“If someone out there is considering volunteering, I’d tell them, ‘You might find someone like Remo, and that’s a home run,” Chris says with a smile.

ABLE2’s Matching Program builds connections between people with disabilities and volunteers. We’ve seen time and time again how a simple friendship can profoundly impact lives. Volunteers like Remo aren’t just allies—they’re changemakers, helping people with disabilities feel seen, supported, and empowered.

If you’re looking to make a meaningful difference, consider becoming a volunteer. As Remo would say, “It doesn’t take much time, but it means everything.”

Learn more about the Matching Program and how you can help change lives with just a few hours a month.

Stephen, a wheelchair user living in Ottawa, relies on OC Transpo to navigate the city. However, in recent months, he has encountered a recurring issue: bus operators declining to assist him with fastening his safety belt. Without proper fastening, Stephen faces a serious safety risk, as he could slide across the bus, endangering both himself and other passengers. When Stephen sought help, he was often told it wasn’t the operator’s job and was advised to use Para Transpo instead—a suggestion that felt dismissive and limiting.

Recognizing the need for systemic change, Stephen took his concerns to Transport Canada, which facilitated mediation meetings between him and OC Transpo. Facing a team of operations managers and engineers, Stephen stood firm as a lone voice for the disability community, calling for improved training for drivers and structural changes to buses to better support passengers with disabilities. His advocacy highlights the critical role individuals with lived experiences play in creating safer, more inclusive public systems—not just for people with disabilities, but for all users.

Stephen’s determination underscores the strength and resilience of empowered advocates. When people with disabilities are supported and heard, they can lead the charge for meaningful change that benefits entire communities. His story serves as a reminder of the importance of listening to those directly impacted by policies and practices, and the transformative power of advocacy in building a more accessible and equitable world.