When Daniel signed up to volunteer with ABLE2’s Matching Program, he wasn’t sure what he was getting himself into. He thought it was a meaningful way to spend free time, but admits it was initially to impress a girl he was seeing. While the relationship didn’t flourish, he found something else that would later change his life. “I went into it kind of blind,” Daniel admits. “But then I spoke with the social worker, and she sold me on the idea of being someone’s friend for life.” Daniel felt like it was a big commitment, but once he met Mark, “It just clicked.”
Mark, who has had previous volunteer Allies, felt the connection instantly. “It was a match made in heaven,” he says with a smile. “As soon as I saw him, I just knew; this one’s special.” Their connection was immediate and genuine, the kind of chemistry that doesn’t need much explanation. Since being matched in 2023, the two have built a bond that continues to enrich both their lives—not just in shared laughs, but in the kind of steady presence that only real friendship offers.
Mark and Daniel at Evening in the Maritimes – May 1, 2024
Their weekly routine is getting coffee at Tim Horton’s, but occasionally, they also enjoy going for walks along the canal, swimming, and bowling— where Mark proudly dominates! They’ve made a habit of turning ordinary outings into memorable moments. One outing that stuck with Daniel was their visit to the Canadian War Museum, where Mark surprised him with an impromptu history lesson. And while not every outing is a shared passion—like the time Daniel brought Mark to a baseball game (“Mark isn’t a baseball guy,” Daniel jokes)—they both agree that differences don’t diminish the experience. “We found a million other things that we both love, and we have fun and enjoy each other’s company nevertheless,” says Daniel.
Mark and Daniel, with another Match Russ and Vaughn, and Mark’s best friend Josh
Their circle has even grown to include others more recently. They’ve gone on outings with other matches, and even with Mark’s best friend, Josh, tagging along too. “I’m very proud of that,” Mark shares. “Because most people, when they say they’re a match, it’s just the two of them. But Daniel sees how much Josh means to me, so he comes along with us once in a while. And I love that it makes Josh feel like he’s got somebody too.” This is one of the quiet but powerful ripple effects of a match— how one match can grow into a broader social circle of belonging and trust.
Another profound effect of their match is how Mark has influenced Daniel’s perspective. Mark, who has written a book on his life experiences, started a business and advocated for people with disabilities in the community— leads by example in every part of his life. Last Christmas, he brought Daniel to volunteer at the Parkdale Food Centre, where they spent the holiday spreading cheer to others in need. That moment left a lasting impression on Daniel. “I see Mark wanting to give his time to others who need it more than he does,” he reflects. “And that makes me very happy. I love it when people do that. There should be more people like Mark.”
When asked how their friendship has impacted their lives, Mark shares, “I don’t feel lonely,” Mark says. “I feel like I have another brother. He’s always there when I need him.” Daniel feels just as grateful. “We have a lot in common, and he’s incredibly easygoing. It’s been fun ever since, and most days I walk away feeling pretty good.”
Daniel, a tech professional by trade, has found himself transformed by the experience. “It’s given me a whole new perspective. You don’t realize how people with disabilities are treated until you’re side by side with someone navigating it every day,” he says. “Mark is so motivated, so full of energy—it’s contagious. It makes you want to be better, do more.” And Mark, always quick to reflect gratitude, adds: “He’s made me a better man. And I wish everyone had a match like Daniel.”
These seemingly simple moments—grabbing coffee, laughing over shared (or not-so-shared) interests, and making new friends—add up to something much bigger: a friendship built on trust and support, that makes the experience meaningful for both. “Mark is an incredibly inspiring guy,” Daniel says. “And I’m finding myself looking forward to introducing him to my girlfriend, my family. I thought this would be an isolated part of my life, but now after spending time with him, I want Mark to meet people I care about and for them to see what a wonderful person Mark is.”
Mark and Daniel’s friendship is just one of the thousands fostered through ABLE2’s Matching Program— a program that has been changing lives for 50 years. These intentional friendships reduce loneliness and isolation, build confidence and self-esteem, and improve mental health and overall well-being. These matches don’t just change two lives— the impact ripples outward into families, communities, and society at large.
Today, there are still over 140 people with disabilities waiting to be matched with an Ally through ABLE2. People like Mark, who just need someone to walk alongside them. People like Daniel, who discover as much as they give.
Your support makes these life-changing friendships possible. Whether by donating, volunteering, or supporting our fundraising events, you are helping build a community where everyone can thrive and live a life filled with meaning and joy.