Neena and Debby: Celebrating 19 years of Friendship

Neena and Debby’s story began 19 years ago when they met through ABLE2’s Matching Program. Neena was looking for an opportunity to create intentional relationships with long-term impacts and she certainly found this in her relationship with Debby.

Neena, who has served on ABLE2’s Board, took her commitment to the next level by becoming an Ally with the Matching Program. When asked what motivated her to volunteer, she says

“I’ve always believed in giving back into the community… I was looking for something that was a little more long-term, something that was more one-on-one. When I joined [ABLE2], I got to meet Debbie, and we hit it off right away.”

Beyond their shared activities, Neena and Debby are dedicated advocates for ABLE2, and have done their fair share of raising awareness and fundraising in support of the organization. For many years, they have participated in the Annual Ottawa Race Weekend to support ABLE2. In 2019, they shared their experiences as a Match at ABLE2’s signature fundraising event, Evening in the Maritimes. The following year, they came on CTV Morning Live to promote the event and talk about their special friendship. Watch their appearance on CTV Ottawa here.

Neena says when she thinks about the impacts of their relationship, she sees the effects it has had for them both.

“I help Debby by supporting her through the not-so-good times, being understanding and patient, being flexible, introducing her to things that may not be readily accessible to her, helping her find her “voice, to stand up for herself and in turn improve her self-confidence by being a good friend”.

Neena goes on to talk about the impact Debby has had on her.

“She has helped me in so many ways. I have learned to see the world with a different lens, the Debby lens, and it’s a heartening perspective. You see, Debby looks for the good in everyone, she always gives. She gives people the benefit of the doubt, she always wants to help, she provides joy through her singing and dancing. She truly sees the wonder in this world and in this beautiful life.”

Neena sums up their relationship –

“I cannot express how much Debby matters to me. We started off as friends and have become family. She is an aunt to my son, and a sister to me and my husband. Through ABLE2 I have met an energetic, capable, empathetic and insightful women who I am blessed to call a dear friend.”